Author Archives: jessica

To Understand Grief

To understand grief is to understand what it feels like to have a hole in your heart that will never disappear. As sure as the sun rises and sets is as sure as the pain that never goes away. Although you learn to understand how this glorious world works in different ways, you learn to…

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Please be patient with yourself

You are still transitioning and learning how to walk again, so please be patient with yourself. This does not happen quickly… or as quickly as you would like it. There needs to be time for integration. That’s where you are now.

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In order to do things differently

In order to do things differently, we need to think about things differently. We need to start making sense of this world differently and challenge our beliefs. If we are perfect, why do we believe we are not? Until we can support our truth with our beliefs, we will forever be stuck and in dissonance…

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The healing secret

The secret is that you can’t heal others. No one can heal anyone else. We are all our own healers. Sometimes we need direction in how to heal ourselves. It is up to each person how deeply they want to heal and how fast they want to go.  

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The fear in seeing through to the soul

It scared him that she saw his soul and not the broken man he felt inside. If he couldn’t live up to how she viewed him, then surely, she would leave him one day when she finally realized that he was “only” human. The one thing he couldn’t see as he walked away, was his…

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Love is not demanding

Love is not demanding

She never had a partner that was able to fully take care of her, or maybe in better terms support her. She could take care of herself, but when she crumbled, the men she chose never knew what to do. It shocked her as the patterns of past relationships kept shining through. The more they…

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An unseen force

I will trust you fully, she cried out to the world. Lead the way. After all she had been through, there was nothing left but faith to guide the way. Life had been brought down to zero. She was beginning again, creating her roots and foundations the right way this time. Built on strength, trust,…

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The knowing is in the unknowing

The knowing is in the unknowing

The knowing is in the unknowing. There is something to be said for throwing your arms up in the air and declaring to the world that you actually know nothing. This world as we have been taught it, makes no sense. This world is absolutely backwards. If it wasn’t backwards, then why aren’t more people…

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fear

Fear

Fear It is a scary place to be when you are in a transition such as the one you are. Believe me when I say, I have been there. I have been to that place where fear takes over. It is a challenging place to be. It is often when your head starts spinning and…

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racism

Racism and Hierarchy

There is a problem when we talk about racism and hierarchy. And don’t think I am not talking to all of us. No one is omitted from this problem. The problem is that we are all too quick to blame, to get our backs up so the spotlight will not shine too brightly on ourselves.…

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